Are You Aligned With Your Worth?


The mirrors & lessons.

The Universe’s only intention for us in this lifetime is to grow into the most whole, realized, authentic version of ourselves. Therefore, everything and everyone that comes into our lives is a mirror (lesson) – an invitation to expand, grow or heal a wound (also known as a block).

Even though every single relationship and situation in our lives is an opportunity to integrate, during this work we are looking to pass what I refer to as “tests.” With each test we pass, we are raising our magnetism and self-worth, which leads us to connect with the subject we’re calling in.


Once you cast your list, you've signaled The Universe that you are ready to receive any tests you need to pass in order to prove your self-worth is in alignment with the subject you're calling in. This shows you trust The Universe implicitly to supply you with what you've asked for. These tests come your way to demonstrate to The Universe that you've learned from past low self-worth lessons – maybe relationships, jobs, bosses, opportunities, anything really – and you have too much self-worth to settle for them again.

1. The lower your self-worth, the more tests you will receive. I compare them to a carrot being dangled in your face to see if you'll take the same shitty thing you've had in the past.

2. Once you pass a test, the tests will become more and more subtle and difficult to recognize.

3. Use your list as a reference point to  see if you're being offered something less than what you're asking for. If you even sense a red flag that seems similar to a past low self-worth situation, it's an automatic “no” or “goodbye” to the opportunity being offered. A great way to detect if something is a test is by checking to see if it doesn't make you feel good.

Here's an example:

You had an emotionally unavailable father. You've never healed the subconscious repercussions of this, so you always attract emotionally unavailable partners. You cast your list for a new emotionally available partner, and begin REPROGRAMMING (critical to complete in tandem with passing tests – more on this soon), and then the tests appear:

Test 1. A suitor shows up who is only 80% of what you asked for. They are mainly missing the essential things. Goodbye.

Test 2. Another suitor shows up who seems to be your list but is already resembling characteristics of the other emotionally unavailable people you've dated. Goodbye.

Test 3. Another suitor shows up and seems to be everything on your list, and emotionally available, but isn't treating you with the respect you'd like. Goodbye.

Subject. Another suitor shows up who is everything on your list and is emotionally available. Everything flows effortlessly, you're treated with more respect than you know what to do with, and it all feels incredibly kismet. BAM. You've manifested your partner.


Reviewing your subject, can you bring to mind any tests you've received in the past regarding this subject? Can you anticipate tests that may come your way due to your worth in ratio to this subject?

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