Thanks for all of the emails with questions that you guys have sent in. We file them under "manifestation questions", and it helps me determine each Monday how to give you insight into what you're in need of. Today's is, "how does destiny play into manifestation and co-creating your reality?" For instance, in my life and those around me, it seems that sometimes when people are focussed on where they want to go, "life can just happen," or "something will come up and detour them." 

I believe that co-creation and destiny are the same thing. You are CO-CREATING with destiny. Learning the full manifestation process in How to Manifest Workshop, you learn that The Universe's only intention is to guide us back into our whole, authentic, most powerful version of self. All of the work I teach is about cracking down your ego shell and questioning and deprogramming societal programming so that you can step into your authentic powerful self. The self you came onto the planet as. The self (soul) that chose this body to carry out your destiny. That is magnetism. When you are in that state and aligned with it, destiny is moving you at your divine current (manifesting), and you are asking for what is in alignment with your destiny naturally. 

Meaning, that when you align deeper with that state, you are asking for heart-centered wants that are equal to your authentic needs. And because you're in your authentic worth and expansion about it, they tend to align very easily. However, the further you are away from your authentic wholeness, the more that you will receive lessons and tests that come to literally earthquake you back into your authentic state. The more tests that you don't pass, the bigger the lessons become and they usually tend to come through the life avenues that matter the most to you. 

Example, say that a client is obsessed with finding a partner to complete them. They aren't in their authentic worth and they chase after the old dysfunctional modeling that they picked up in childhood - the emotionally unavailable partner - each new person that shows up will tend to create deeper heartbreak (or ego dismantling). Why? Because this person cares most about love and the way that they will learn quickest is through the thing that matters most to them. It's all an act to shatter one's ego to get them closer to their totally whole and authentic, powerful selves. For another that lives in severe lack, their lessons might come in forms that jeopardize their financial security. You get the point. 

However, the more you deprogramunlock your shadow, and work in alignment with your authentic self, these lessons become very few and far between.

I can say this from personal experience, and through watching clients evolve and unfold. 

"Life just happens" when we are further away from our authentic selves, and when we're manifesting out of ego (and I'm very lenient of what ego means which you learn in F&M). It's all destiny. However, the more we UNBLOCK and align with our authentic selves, expand, and don't settle, "manifestations just happen." 


How to manifest • How to Manifest

If you are wanting to manifest money & career • Opulence

If you are manifesting a partner • Partnership

Everyone needs to reprogram in order to expand limiting beliefs • Reparent and Shadow 



i. This oil

ii. A super cheap last minute flight to Europe on a fancy airline. 

iii. A stay at this spot

iv. And this top


Manifestation with Lacy Phillips