Manifest Your Partner

The UNBLOCKED™ Love Tool is an 8-day workshop that is centered around manifesting your authentic & non-ego based partner or relationship. In this workshop, you’ll learn all about the energetics that are necessary to attracting a partner while enhancing your magnetism and manifestation process. Each day, you will be prompted to investigate the ways in which your subconscious worth and conscious worth need to be expanded in order to connect with your partner. You will discover exactly where your blocks for manifesting your partner are.

Includes access for 12 weeks. For unlimited access see our Pathway Membership below.


8 Days of Workshop Content

8  Journal Prompts

2 Hypnotic Deep Imaginings  

30-60 minutes of content for each workshop day

Community support in the comment sections on each page


Perpetually single

Usually a doormat

Can’t seem to get a partner to commit or always attract in emotionally unavailable suitors

Emotionally unavailable with yourself

Sleep around too easily

Short lived dating experiences

Undervalue your worth in dating


This workshop is all about taking inventory of how you’ve been settling in, while uncovering the blocks of why you have been settling in past relationships or why you may have never actually had a relationship. It involves very little reprogramming and can be accomplished in the eight days or sooner. This workshop teaches you the energetics of how to attract in your partner. We suggest revisiting it once a month until you’ve attracted your partner.
At the end of the course, you’ll have learned the energetics behind manifesting a partner and how to integrate this practice into your daily life. You’ll also have gained community support and a better understanding of your most authentic, magnetic self. In order to complete this workshop, please have a device with access to WIFI, a pen, paper/journal and the proper time to dedicate to this deep inner work.

Access at anytime that is convenient for you! All you need is your digital device, journal, pen and earphones.



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Our membership, The Pathway, includes access to all the tools for a monthly fee starting at $24.99.



This has been the most insightful exercise yet for me. I can’t believe that ways I’ve allowed myself to be small in the relationships that I’ve had (even one that lasted 5 years!)
I grew up often feeling ignored with my parents having 3 other children with big personalities, and I am shocked to realize that I have subconsciously put myself in relationships that make me feel the same exact way. I can’t believe I didn’t make the connection sooner but am so glad that I can see it now. Thank you so much for this and all your work, Lacy!

This class couldn’t be more helpful and aligned with everything I knew I should be doing and just didn’t have the impetus or clarity to do. I feel like I’ve done 6 years of therapy in 6 days and I’m telling everyone I know about this. Thank you Lacy and Team!!!

I posted on here a bit ago about how I felt like I had been losing some old friends etc. (people that were holding me back) after doing the work - and received the kindest responses from y’all and everyone told me I was in the thick of it. Well.... I did the partnership workshop about three months ago and have been hardcore reflecting on it since. I am freaking out right now. I manifested my ideal partner. Like. To a T. I can’t believe it. Just wanted to share ~~~~~~~~ !!!!!

Thank you thank you thank you!! This went deep and cleared a lot out of my system. It was like a cleanse for my heart to make room for the right person and healthy relationship I know I am worthy of.

Wowowowza. Listing out the past three years’ worth of men and the scenarios we were in, sometimes more than once, made their positions as mirrors/expanders/tests crystal clear! I’m amazed. What felt like a hot mess of shoulda-coulda-woulda now makes sense: my self-worth has been so out of wack. Journaling this timeline just put me in check and confirmed that I’m on the right path of releasing and reprogramming. So thankful!!

I just finished Unblocked Love and LOVED IT. This may sound weird, but it was.... fun!?? Really digging in and visualizing/describing my ideal partner was such a cool experience. I’ve spent years assuming that that person didn’t exist and that I was asking for too much. This belief has led me to give in to tests, reinforcing a low self worth. Truly a vicious cycle!

What a GIFT to fully own my worth, and recognize that I CAN manifest an incredible partner.

I’m finally heeding the calls I’ve been hearing for a long time, but never had the strength or worth to listen to. After a wild 5 months of doing Lacy’s work, so much has shifted and I have come to terms with the fact that my 2 year relationship I’m in no longer serves me. I’m with an amazing person who has been a major expander, and there are a million and one reasons I ‘shouldn’t’ leave him. But one big voice in my heart tells me what I truly want is out there waiting for me and I deserve all the new things I know I want.

I have a profound breakthrough to share: I recently just finished Unblocked partnership and really struggled with Day six when we write out every single person we have ever dated and how we played small, where we aren’t standing in our worth and boundaries etc., etc., and the through line of how this modelled a caretaker we had.
I have been doing re-parenting and re-patterning for many years now, but I never witness such a through line before where everything just clicked.
Each one of my partners in some way or another have all been emotionally unavailable; my parent’s were also emotionally unavailable when I was a child.
I began to weep uncontrollably for what seemed like an eternity. It felt sad, but mostly like a GIANT release.
I am so grateful for this work. Thank you so much F&N! I had to share and I hope this story is of service to someone!

I reached out to Lacy in August for guidance in manifesting a partner. I had been dating in NYC for 5 years and had been through the gamut of emotionally unavailable men and was feeling uninspired, and lost.

After just one session with Lacy I felt re-energized: she provided me with tools to change my beliefs and approach to dating, but also uncovered other blocks that I never connected to my romantic life. I spent the next four months working on building my self-worth, getting clear on what I wanted in a partner (which meant a lot of FIRST dates, not a lot of 2nd dates), and trusting my intuition. After completing her workshop in September, we had our second session in November, and BAM...the most kismet meeting happened, I met the man that was everything on my list, and more!! So thankful for Lacy and these tools that I will continue to use for the rest of my life!
— Nichole, NYC

I wanted to write you to thank you for the unblocked workshops – I am doing the Reparenting for the third time, have done shadow once, partnership once, and opulence three times. Since starting this work in December my life has drastically changed – an unhealthy relationship, job and apartment situation were cleared out of my life!
I wanted to share something I’ve figured out/something that happened thanks to the work (How to Manifest and Unblocked Love) and also thanks to some of you on here! Thank you to everyone who answers questions & gives their insight, it definitely helps!
One thing was regarding judgement: I noticed that I have been attracting nice women into my life, but two of them have a very similar trait: they made me feel judged. At first I thought of looking for past memories, to work out my insecurities regarding judgement from others. But I also realized that it wasn’t really insecurity that was the problem, but the actual situation of being judged. In other words: when I was by myself again, I wouldn’t necessarily care what they thought about me. I’d even shrug it off, like “who cares what they think” - but when I met them again, the judgy looks triggered me so hard. I was really obsessed with figuring this out (I posted on here) and then I asked my guides to just help me out. I immediately thought “just google it” and found Lacy’s blog post on “Projections”. Wow, what an eye opener! I realized these two women are my mirrors. I feel so uncomfortable and triggered when they judge me, but I do the exact same thing with a few other people! It took a high amount of honesty with myself to realize this - but I give a few friends “judgy looks”, I react in the same annoying way, I question stuff they say just because to me it feels weird and wrong (for example, a friend of mine is heavily focused on career and I feel bad for her 6 year old son who doesn’t get to spend much time with her, so sometimes I definitely judge her and she definitely notices it!). I always thought of myself of being a very open person who doesn’t judge, but I do. Hell, I do. Probably in an even more annoying way than these two women I mentioned above.
The same thing goes for owning up when you say something mean or unfriendly - I do this to family members a lot (or rather, I don’t) and this new friend made me feel SO uncomfortable when she showed that exact same personality flaw. Later on I was like....duh! The Universe was putting a mirror in front of you, it was so obvious! And your ego was blocking you from seeing it! I think my guides must have been pretty desperate to put TWO women at the same time in my life for me to finally figure this out.
I’m so thankful to Lacy’s blog and work, it helped me realize this - and that’s the first step in letting go of our ego and approaching our authentic self! So happy I’m on the right path!!
This is getting long, but the second thing was my attachment to my mom that may be blocking me to meet a partner. I realized that while doing Partnership and now I took a few actions to cut off the blocking energy between both of us. One of these actions was to book a flight to Spain and go on a yoga retreat by myself. I’m very excited! And you know what happened: my mom told me she has a date! Omg, so funny & cool! It was like the Universe was telling me: Girl, you are on the right track and you don’t need to worry about mama! We got this!
Isn’t it all so magical? You know what else happened: Mama got two new job offers, so basically she will have such a busy life from now on! This will lead to me not feeling so guilty or bad if I have “my own life” with my future partner and family. But this started happening right after I realized I needed to loosen up our tight link and go on a vacation by myself.
So excited for what’s to come!!

I did partnership back in February, encountered a few tests, and then all of a sudden four months later met an absolutely fantastic man on HINGE of all places.
We’ve been dating for two months and though we haven’t had the official “boyfriend/girlfriend” conversation yet, this has been SUCH a wonderful, exciting and refreshing experience for me. This photo is from one of my journaling sessions while doing partnership... and as I get to know this man more and more, he continues to check items off of the list (and ones that SHOULD have been on there, like a great sense of humor).

One of the things I learned about myself during partnership was that I was really afraid no one would bother to get to know the authentic me, pursue me, and stay interested. But I also had to challenge myself to fully stand in my worth and show the real me, rather than adjusting myself to whoever I was around. It’s been a really beautiful experience to have someone pursue me... and for me to feel comfortable enough to actually BE KNOWN.

It still feels early and who knows how things will turn out, but I can already tell you that this dating relationship has been a huge expander for me (in the best way). AND I’ve learned that partnership is truly equal parts what you’re calling IN, as well as what authentic energy you’re putting OUT into the world. 
— unblocker love
✨ manifesting magic ✨
hold on bc this is a long one 😬⠀
manifesting has always been something i have been good at, it’s something that has almost felt like a magical power of mine {front row parking spots are my speciality 😝} 🔮⠀
but it wasn’t until i worked through lacy phillip’s @freeandnative unblocked series did i see the REAL magic happen + begin to correlate it with the understanding of my self worth 💫⠀
see this little guy, yeah he was 100% manifested 🐶⠀
➡️ a little back story: after quietly looking for about 6 months with no luck, things never feeling right + continually getting denied on rescue cavalier pups i was really getting disheartened about the whole process ⠀
+ then about 3 months ago after completing my first unblocked series on partnership i not only wrote down the type of partner i wanted to call in but i decided to also write down the type of companion i wanted to call in 🐶❤️⠀
+ just two days before leaving to bali this sweet pup appeared + was EVERYTHING on my list - down to his astrological sign {i wanted a pisces 😬}, price, location, coloring, sex + demeanor
i have never felt a ping so hard that this was MY guy, that he was exactly what i was manifesting + was meant to have 🙌⠀
+ i can say just two weeks in that he is literally everything i ever wanted + more + welp, i am in love... + grateful 😍 //

Thank you for sharing your gifts with the world. I was drawn to the Partnership course and today was Day 1. Through the meditation I began crying when I realized I broke through and unconscious block that I’ve been carrying through every single romantic relationship that started with my family and mirrors the relationship I have with them. I cried through journaling and for a short time after. I know now I’ve been able to release heavy, stored energy that I no longer needed. Thank you 🙏🏼💕
Today feels like I’m reborn in this area of my life and I continue to keep this feeling. I shared this with two friends that I feel totally cleansed from that heavy, protective energy and I feel ready to receive. Can’t wait for the rest of the days!

This is working!
I’m attracting oodles of men and they are much higher quality than in the past. AND my business is attracting great people as well and projects that have been stuck for years are moving forward.
— unblocker love

After the first day of doing UNBLOCKED Love, my friend told me she wanted to set me up on a date- that’s literally never happened to me before + I havent been on a date in 3+ years!

Said no to a relationship that wasn’t serving me and called in a trip to Thailand, a new job and dream apartment (in my budget) in the west village. 🙌🏼 #NO

I’ve been wanting to say THANK YOU for your amazing work for a while, ever since I found your website things have changed in my life and just recently I met the partner I always wanted to call into my life. I can’t even remember the time when I had a ‘real’ relationship and how long it took me to unblock all the little things that were holding me back. I did the Reparenting workshop and been listening and reading everything from you I could get my hands on. I had my list for my partner for a long time but then two months agoin the midst of doing all the work it hit me and I wrote down the most precise and clear list I;ve ever had, and not even 2 weeks later, and after passing two very shint tests... he appeared. it is everything I’ve ever wanted and it was never so easy, open and clear, and all the fears I used to have, have disappeared. he ticks everything on my list and more and being with someone has never felt so good! I can’t believe this is all happening, haha but it is! and your work has gotten me there!! I keep telling all my friends about you so they can have their own experiences. Uou are gold! thank you so much for sharing all of thisand making your work and wisdom available to so many people!! thank you thank you thank you!!

I had to email you because I was cleaning out my sock drawer and I found my list form the beginning of this year. As you know, the partner, job, and the move to Paris came with ease after our session and Unblocked Shadow. But I was shocked to see that everything else came as well. Even a short trip to the Amalfi last September. I completely forgot about writing that?!!! And it was rather synchronist in that my boyfriend’s job sent him there for work. Also, the perfect Japanese cooking class fell into my lap here in Paris. You are a treasure. All the other forms of manifestation never connected or worked for me. I can’t wait for the How to Manifest video workshop. Thank you for existing and choosing this as your work to share with us. You have literally changed my life. Bisous!
— Photographer, Paris

Just had to share here - I finally “cut the cord” with a guy I went on a few dates with that just doesn’t seem like a good fit. I struggled because 1 - it was hard for me to put a finger on what it was that wasn’t right between us... we had a lot of fun together, but I think it just didn’t go deeper than that. and 2 - I struggled with how to end things. I posted and had some great inspiration from here and it still took me a couple more days to actually say it to him. BUT I did and I am feeling totally in my power! feeling super grateful for the growth I’m making and for this community!

What happened after my first session with Lacy was nothing short of magical! I was feeling happy and like things were moving forward in most areas of my life. I had made my dream of bi-coastal living a reality, and my work allowed me all kinds of freedom, but love and romance were missing and I felt like I had no idea where to even begin. Lacy had me write my detailed list of core qualities I wanted in a partner, get shrewd about anyone who didn’t make the cut, get rid of stuff (and people), and say yes to my intuition, “pings” as she called it. Fast forward only a few weeks later, and at my busiest time at work, I decided at the last minute (the ping) to go to a sporting event on my way home from the office. My friend and I bought tickets on the street but then realized our seats were not together. I found myself sitting next to a guy (my list) who had essentially had the same exact ping. It turned out we had the same person’s tickets! We talked through the whole game and nine months later, we are still was truly a divine meeting.
I did my list, cleaned up superficial relationships, and said yes to my intuition. I am still amazed at how it all happened. Lacy cut through all of my nonsense and helped me get crystal clear on what I wanted to manifest and what was blocking me, AND she did it quickly. I feel incredibly lucky to have found her and grateful every day that I found magic and even more happiness than I thought possible.
— Susan, NYC

Lacy Phillips is magic. For real

I am in awe, and so so grateful for the wisdom and guidance Lacy has shared with me. I was initially a little skeptical of manifestation when my best friend told me to check out the Free + Native journal, but I found Lacy’s take on manifestation to be very clear and grounded. It made sense to me.

I was newly unemployed, dumped, broke and 30. I needed a miracle, so I decided to book an online digital session. It was, without a doubt, the best counseling/advising session I have ever had. Lacy is warm and easy to talk to, and also very skilled at getting straight to the root of limiting beliefs. After the session, I was absolutely buzzing. She gave me some homework, book recommendations, and suggested I book a session with hypnotherapist @mind__waves to reprogram some limiting beliefs I picked up in my early childhood. I enthusiastically followed all of her recommendations and committed to listening to the pings, even when they made no sense.

Within a few weeks, I got a ping to visit my old university. It was a 45-minute drive away and I had no reason to go, but I decided to make lunch plans with a friend who was still studying there. I ran into an old prof in the hall who offered me a job on the spot. I also literally bumped into an old classmate I had a crush on for years. The job opportunity turned into a better job, which turned into a better job, and now I am making 2X my previous salary and working with people and projects that inspire and light me up. The crush I bumped into is now my loving, kind, funny, supportive boyfriend. I have never been in such a balanced relationship before and I have to keep pinching myself to make sure my life is real, that this profound transformation has occurred in only 8 months.

Not to say it’s always easy – as I’ve been expanding difficult stuff has been coming up. The universe has been testing me and it has been scary, hard work at times (especially that unblocked course, the man was that tough!). But I keep falling back on the tools Lacy shared with me, and they keep working. I have more emotional intelligence than before and I’m better at listening to myself.”
— Em in B.C.