Expanded x Ep. 395 - The Old Way Is Collapsing—Here’s How to Manifest Through the Shift

Stop trying to win the old game—choose the brave, soulful path of your real self.


Feeling like the wheels are coming off your life—or the world?

The Year of the Fire Horse is here, and the old paradigm is dissolving fast. For some, it feels like rock bottom. For others, a slow unraveling. This week, Lacy and Jessica unpack the collective stripping, ego deaths, and visibility fears rising to the surface—and why this acceleration is actually a portal into your most authentic self.

If you’ve been stuck in perfectionism, burned out by optimization culture, or clear on your purpose but unable to move, this episode unpacks what’s happening beneath the surface. Through the lens of TBM tools, human design, Chinese astrology, and nervous system regulation, they explain why hustle, formulas, and “matrix authenticity” won’t carry you into the new paradigm—but why a more aligned, authentic approach will.

This season isn’t about fear. It’s about releasing what no longer fits so something truer can emerge. The real question is: are you ready to stop performing and step into your true purpose?

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In This Episode We Talk About: 

  • The collective “wheels coming off” feeling and why it’s so loud right now

  • Fire Horse 2026 energetics

  • New paradigm dissolvement and overlapping messages across astrology + human design

  • Ego deaths as grief for old selves and old versions of society

  • Learning the rules vs. letting the rules rule you

  • TBM tools as nervous-system support during stripping and change

  • Deep Imagining as a way to access fear beneath fear

  • Protector parts showing up as inner critic, perfectionism, and “don’t be seen” patterns

  • Visibility blocks: why people can’t take action even when they’re finally “clear”

  • The difference between messy momentum vs. performative output

  • Restraint as medicine for over-creating, and action as medicine for stagnation

  • Grandparent / wise elder energy as the anchoring frequency for what’s coming

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