Manifesting a Partner Who Is My List and More
Ok, so... I came across To Be Magnetic in August last year after I was thrown into a rock bottom in the beginning of 2019 (got broken up with, moved back home, had no job, broke, completely lost) After being in a relationship for nearly ten years I didn’t know how to be single, and I didn't know much about myself. I was obsessed with trying to meet someone new and went on a shit load of dates, thinking it was purely a numbers game. I would meet guys that matched two of these three things each time (nice, Attractive, and wants a relationship). I could NOT find all three and kept being attracted to guys who weren’t interested in me/didn’t want something serious, and they also were planning on moving or working away for work.
I received test after test with a few nearly matching all my list and also posing as expanders. I dated a guy at the end of last year who was super nice, but there was just no spark. I tried to make it work, but after we had talked more, I found that he also felt the same way. He was a huge expander. Then a few months ago, a “friend” slept with a guy at a party that I was trying to get with when I stumped back into some low self-worth behavior.
That was a HUGE wake-up call to STOP chasing people AND Realise my worth! I then set firm boundaries and became less attached to the idea of needing someone and focussed more on a new business idea. I then signed up for a business course on a payment plan that would be 10k... (that I didn’t have), but I TRULY believe that I could manifest it myself through other portals. Then I met a guy on Hinge, and he is my list and more. Everything is so easy and effortless; I honestly can’t believe it... I now understand what Lacy means when she says that you’ll know when you’ve manifested your partner. 😍 Here’s to shedding more blocks and continuing to manifest 🤩🤗