Expanded x Ep. 384 - How to Feel Safe, Trust, and Have Healthy Boundaries: Inner Child Healing Part 1

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Written By Lacy Phillips

Your most magnetic self already lives within you. Return to it.

What if the way your needs were met in infancy still shapes your ability to feel safe, seen, and supported today?

Welcome to the end-of-year challenge: The Return to Magic. Today, Lacy, Jessica, and EMDR-certified LMFT Janelle dive deep into the foundation of all manifestation work: your earliest subconscious blueprint set in childhood. This episode explores the powerful programming from ages zero to 18 months. It’s a period most people don’t remember, but it’s when your soul touched down into your human body—and profoundly shapes who you are today. 

This early stage is where safety, secure relationships, and boundaries are formed, and Janelle helps us understand how the presence (or absence) of these things can leave us feeling out of balance.

This conversation is a reminder that our TBM practice is here to bring us back to our most whole selves. We are not destined to stay stuck in old patterns or loops that don’t serve us. We can start from the very beginning and manifest the lives we’re meant to embody. 

This is the work that changes everything. It’s time to return to your magic.

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In This Episode We Talk About: 

  • The real reason your manifestations feel stuck — and how early unmet needs are the cause

  • Why the most formative manifestation blueprint is set between 0–18 months

  • The power of skin-to-skin contact and early co-regulation with caregivers

  • Healing the nervous system through somatic reparenting and new DI’s

  • How trauma from inconsistency or neglect creates current-day self-worth blocks

  • Creating secure attachment with the universe — the TBM method's deeper layer

  • Reclaiming trust, touch, routine, and reliability through new subconscious experiences

  • Overwriting your origin story through the reparenting process

  • Why boundaries, autonomy, and safe exploration matter so deeply

  • Releasing perfectionism, people-pleasing, and rebellion patterns from toddler years

  • Rediscovering intuition, creativity, and authenticity buried beneath early shame

  • How to self-soothe as an adult by attuning to your inner child’s unmet needs

  • Recognizing that your inner child is your spiritual guide back to wholeness

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