Expanded x Ep. 426 - Lock Into Your Soul: How to Navigate a Shifting Identity & Manifest What’s Next
You’re allowed to choose the life that feels like you.
What if the things suddenly feeling “off” in your life are actually showing you exactly where you’re meant to go next?
In this episode, Lacy and Jessica dive into the Refinement Era and Lacy's recent channeling about the Great Clearing: an upcoming season of releasing distractions, outdated identities, energy leaks, and anything that no longer reflects who you're becoming. They explore why this isn't about "locking in" through more discipline or force, but about locking into your soul and getting radically clear on what deserves your life force.
Lacy shares her latest channeling on shame integration, intuition, and the freedom of embracing your "f*ck it energy." Jessica breaks down how expanders, visibility, creativity, and her 3am "lazy river" metaphor are reshaping the way she thinks about manifestation.
From soul friendships and social media to rituals, nature, and following the smallest intuitive pings, this conversation is an invitation to stop fighting the current, clear what's draining your power, and make space for a life that feels unmistakably like you.
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In This Episode We Talk About:
The Refinement Era and the deeper authentic self emerging beneath old identities
Releasing relationships, habits, distractions, and expectations that no longer resonate
“Locking into your soul”
Where your energy and life force are leaking into things that don’t truly fulfill you
Integrating shame and giving yourself permission to be imperfect and fully human
Stepping into “f*ck it energy” without ego, reactivity, or abandoning integrity
Why visibility can activate fears of criticism, judgment, rejection, and being misunderstood
Using expanders to see that authenticity and imperfection can coexist
How social media, rage bait, performative content, and online attention may conflict with authentic expression
Soul friendships and recognizing relationships rooted in love, connection, reciprocity, and genuine support
Jessica’s “lazy river” metaphor for manifestation trusting the universe’s current
Rebuilding daily routines around spaciousness, creativity, freedom, and mastery
Following intuitive pings before circumstances force you to make a change
Lacy’s reconnection with plants, nature, seasonal ritual, herbal practices, and her evolving Authentic Code
Creating consistent rituals that reconnect you to your soul, intuition, expanders, tests, triggers, and aligned action
Mentioned In the Episode:
Read Melissa Wood-Tepperberg’s post What If I Just Deleted Social Media
Learn more about the energetics of 2026 and 2027 and the Refinement Era in The Hidden Fear Blocking Your Manifestations Right Now
Ep. 318 — Speeding Up Your Manifestations in the New Paradigm with Jenna Zoe
Learn more about Signal in Ep. 409 – Why You’re Still Playing Small Without Realizing It
Ep. 404 - Why Your Old Ways Aren’t Working Anymore: Staying Authentic in the New Paradigm
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