Getting Specific With My List & Meeting The Perfect Partner
Name: Christina Kane
Where do you reside?: Portland OR
What is your cultural upbringing and background?: white, lower middle class, grew up in a small mountain town in Northern California
Are you currently a Pathway Member?: Yes
What was on your manifestation list?: A partner who is:
- taller than me
- eats healthy and is physically active
- is just as or more attractive than me
- business savvy and great with money
- nurturing
- claims me fully
- similar sex drive
- not flirty
- wants a committed sacred union
- texts and calls me often
- practiced in tantric/sacred intimacy work and committed to learning more
- praises and lifts me up publicly
- loves to spend time together
- has mostly male friends
- is very "unit oriented"
- shows me tons of public affection
- musical collaboration
- has good music taste
- is an incredible, slow skilled lover
- has some notoriety online
What workshops did you use and what blocks did you discover during the DIs & workshops?: Unblocked love
What expanders did you find?: Claire & Jamie from Outlander
What tests did you face? Which did you pass? Not pass?: I probably stayed in the relationship I was in when calling in my new partner a little longer than necessary.
I slept with my partner after we had broken up, which was a test fail.
Did you experience a magic dark period? If so, tell us about it.: Oh yes! After I had left the relationship with the man I was in when I called in my new partner, I had around a month of absolute nothingness. It was around the winter solstice as well, so there was a lot of emptiness. I was no longer in this relationship that offered me connection, affection, and provision.... and the new one hadn't come in yet. I kept losing faith and was feeling super impatient.
How did your manifestation come through?: I had been getting clear and saying NO to the relationship I was in a few months before we parted ways. I heard from spirit, "at the next eclipse, you'll part ways" nearly six months before we did (and I kid you not, this was the exact day my ex and I parted ways.) After digging into my anger, it was clear that I was no longer willing to settle for men that weren't 100% devoted to me and claiming me in all the ways. Once I had gotten clear on this, I felt my attraction for the man I was with beginning to wane, and this new energy began to come in: the energy of my next beloved.
As time went by, I finally left my relationship in service of this new one I was calling in. In the meantime, someone had moved into the community house I was living at, that at first I was like "meh" about, but as time went on, especially after I left the relationship I was in, I realized it was him.
I resisted it for a while, but eventually, we got together, and the rest is history! He meets everything on that list, minus, maybe, the "has some notoriety online." But the major points: fully committed, wants a future, claims me, good with money, devoted to the sacred union were all there. The funny thing was, he was so committed and devoted to me right after we met that I became the one who had commitment issues. Oh, universe...
How long did it take for your manifestation to come through after crafting your initial list?: 6 months
How frequently were you using the workshops and DI's when you noticed the biggest shift surrounding your manifestation?: There were a few weeks where I was diving into the work, especially Unblocked Love. That's what helped me get really clear. DI's less regularly but every once in a while.
How do you incorporate this work into your life on a daily basis? Any tips, tricks or recommendations for getting the most out of it, or personalizing it?: Morning daily journaling, connecting to my intuition and free writing to help me orient to the present and how to orient to the future.
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