The Family I’ve Always Wanted
Name: Heather Roma Wicks
Are you currently a Pathway Member?: No
What was on your manifestation list?: Love and abundance. A life partner who already had a child wanted another child and who was everything on my list. Tall, bearded, tattooed, surfs, loves the outdoors, financially stable, and a good, honest person who wanted everything that I wanted.
What workshops did you use and what blocks did you discover during the DIs & workshops?: How to Manifest, Unblocked Inner Child, Unblocked Shadow, Unblocked Love.
What expanders did you find?: Sophie Jaffe of Philosophie, Lara Hogan of Co-Op Agency, Mother Sun and the Captain, Lisa Bonet and Jason Momoa
What tests did you face? Which did you pass? Not pass?: So many dates, a couple of friends with benefits (but I wanted a relationship), and one relationship where I was not in my worth and settling for what I knew deep down was not right. I was holding onto the one relationship I went into after over three years of getting divorced that I thought was right, but in the end, he was not the one and not ready.
Did you experience a magic dark period? If so, tell us about it.: Before I met this boyfriend who broke up with me, I hadn't even made it to Unblocked Love or made my dream man list. I thought that the other workshops worked! So I went back and made Love, and very soon after, my manifestation came through.
How did your manifestation come through?: An acquaintance who was my neighbor for years. 6'4 with long hair and everything else on my list. We had attended each other's kid's birthday parties, and I always wondered about him, but he never made a move until he invited us over for a play date. After the first play date, we knew we were meant for each other. My son and I moved in with him and his son three months later.
We got pregnant one month after that, and when the baby was born, we found out it was the girl we both always wanted but never voiced (we each already had one boy). 2 months after that, we got engaged. Nine months after that, we renovated the home he grew up in Topanga and moved in. One month after that, we bought our first home together and now live back and forth from Topanga and the desert. 2 months after we bought our new home, we got married with 100 of our friends and family joining us. In short, I got what I asked for, what I didn't ask for but wanted in my heart, and so much more than I ever could have dreamt of! Now I know that anything else I want to manifest is possible.
Since my manifestations started coming through, my community from Instagram had continuously reached out to me to tell me that I am their expander (including Lacy when she was first pregnant), and it feels so amazing to be able to help people with my story. Before all of this, I was in a marriage and had a child with someone I didn't know was bipolar until after we married and was pregnant and has never been able to hold a job, pay rent or live in a house, so I have come very far from where I started! It was very rocky, and at the time, I didn't even believe that life could be good again. And now look where we are! Thank you, Lacy and team, for everything you do!!
How long did it take for your manifestation to come through after crafting your initial list?: Less than two months
How frequently were you using the workshops and DI's when you noticed the biggest shift surrounding your manifestation?: Every day. I had to wake up an hour before my son to be able to make the time for myself.
If you'd like, please include your IG handle:: @thewestsidecollective
What is your cultural upbringing and background?: Filipina, Dutch, Irish, British
WORKSHOPS
Shadow / Inner Child / How to Manifest / Love
