Tests
Q: I’ve been noticing a lot of tests popping up surrounding my time and money. Am I expanded enough?
A: If you’re receiving smaller tests, you need to face your fears - you are still staying small. If you’re asking, “Am I expanded enough? Will the bigger tests come through?” you’re kind of answering yourself. Bigger tests will come through when you’re expanded enough, but also when you take actionable steps to move past your fears.
Q: I keep getting tested by past lovers who reach out to me. I know these are tests, but is it more in my worth to ignore or can I respond?
A: This all comes down to energetics and the way to determine this is when you're responding. If you're doing it to be able to have a connection again, even though you're not going to follow through with it then do not respond. You're not in your power. If you're responding in your power, meaning you truly don’t care about having any interaction with this person again- you’ve moved on and you're done for now then the healing has happened. You have to get honest with yourself what your intention is down there. Energetically if you're doing it just to open a little bit of a door, just to feel a feeling, what you're communicating to the universe is that you're not passing the test. If, again, you're empowered and you respond, you've already communicated to the universe with your energy in the first place that you're done and over with it. The test wouldn't be coming your way if most likely you didn't have a little sliver still there that you wanted to keep open and engage with. You have to get honest with yourself and see why you're doing it, what your intentions are for it and be truthful with yourself. That will help you decide what to do.
Q: If you’re unblocking and doing the work to raise self worth and magnetism, can tests start coming in for something that isn’t on your list?
A: Absolutely. The universe will usually use that to test and toy with you because it’s what can get your attention with the most. For example, if you’re a person who’s work-obsessed and shrinking the most in work and needing to learn the most lessons but you’re calling in a partner, it will play with work a lot. It could be where you need to learn the most lessons. It can also be where you’re the most focused and obsessed.
Q: Can someone be both an expander and a test?
A: Expanders and tests often come in the same package. You'll often see tests/expanders come when you're dating, manifesting a house, or career. If one comes through that is everything on your list but it's not the one and it doesn't work out then that was an expander and it was also a test. Don’t get discouraged!
Q: I am successfully passing dating tests, but it feels like I am constantly dumping people and it’s emotionally draining. What do you suggest?
A: Just the fact that you are getting tested means you’ve made progress in your manifestation process and that something/someone is orbiting around you and wants to come through. It sounds like you are not unblocked and expanded enough because if you were the tests would begin to stop. The biggest question you should ask yourself is where do you still feel unworthy of what you want in a relationship? If you are energetically communicating low self worth in any areas of partnership you will continue to project that and tests will continue to come through. Try using the Deep Imaginings™ and ask yourself how you’re still projecting from low self worth and where you need expansion to believe that what you are calling in is possible.
Q: Will the universe punish me for failing a test?
A: There is no wrong step in life. There is no wrong step in manifestation. If you don’t pass a test, then the only thing that will happen is that you slow down the process of what you want to come through and another test comes.
Q: Is there a way to protect our projects / manifestations from people and is the fact that we want to protect our success or goals from negative influences a sign of fear or blocks?
A: When we’re just figuring out our process and are in it and other people chime in, it knocks us off of our worth. There are people who really love us and they’re afraid for us so they want to help by cautioning us. Then you have the negative people who want to see us down and if that’s what you’re experiencing you need to have manifestation boundaries. What I mean by that is do not tell people what you are manifesting and let the manifestations (once they come through) speak for themselves until you build your trust muscle enough to where you have this formula down so well that anything anybody says won’t knock you off your track.
