Reality Expander
Reality Expanders (aka reality checks) are one of the best tools to get into this place of total trusting deservingness. They help you define your authentic projection of what you want and weed out what you don’t want. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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An example: You thought you wanted a freelance job until you spoke with freelance friends and realized the inconsistency of pay, especially when first starting out. When the reality of the situation kicks in, you realize maybe you just want a more flexible work from home job instead of full-on freelance. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I had similar expansion moments with many aspects of the acting industry - there were many parts of it that just weren’t aligned for me. I realized that was not going to be my path, and there had to be more aligned ways for me to express myself in the way that I can with acting, and receive fulfillment. Starting & running this company has allowed me to do this in ways that were BEYOND my wildest dreams at the time. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Reality Expanders help you get into a state of deservingness because you stop the dog paddling and you let go, leaning fully into co-creating with the universe. This is so powerful. This expansion takes the pining away - you realize why something hasn’t happened for you yet, and why you don’t even want to chase after this thing anymore. Instead, you can focus on figuring out what your authentic projection of this essence you’ve been craving is.
Who are your reality expanders?
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