You’re Whole With or Without a Partner

Manifesting a partner is one of the top things I get questions on, and it’s kind of my expertise. But, before you focus on manifesting a partner, ask yourself WHY you want one in the first place. Do you feel like you need a partner to complete yourself or your life? ⁣
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Yes, a partnership can provide tremendous growth, love, and connection. But so often, I see friends and clients manifesting out of lack. They believe (consciously or otherwise) that partnership will solve whatever burden they carry. You might have shadow elements that you are hoping to integrate through partnership, you may be seeking a partner to heal childhood wounds (trauma bonding), or maybe you’re codependent and seek that emotional enmeshment. ⁣
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So, before you seek partnership, look at the ways you are not showing up for yourself. What are you looking for in a partner, that you are really desiring in yourself? Use these desires as a mirror. Then become so content with you, with your life, that it doesn’t matter if someone is on the journey with you or not - this is the most magnetic place to be in. ⁣

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