Expanded x Ep. 60: The Process, Embracing the Highs and Lows of Manifestation with Jocelyn Kelly Reid
“You can come back from anything. You’re intended to go through it so you can come out and show yourself something bigger.”
Today’s guest is a fellow Pathway member who has come on the show to share her own experience doing the Pathway work. Jocelyn talks in depth about her experience in childhood as a woman of color and how this influenced her upbringing. She describes her workshop experience, and how it’s brought her to a magnetic space in both dating and her career.
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In This Episode We Talk About:
A relaxing week away in NYC, meeting people who are doing the Pathway work
Lacy’s fat soluble protocol
The new unscented products she’s using
The new body of work Lacy has downloaded
Jocelyn’s cultural background and upbringing
Her experience as an African American growing up in a primarily Caucasian environment
How she identifies (or doesn’t) with all the different groups she’s associated with
The archetypes we call forward in our most magnetic state — for Jocelyn, it’s more about how she feels than how she imagines herself in specific scenarios
Her biggest rock bottom, and the conditions surrounding it
How received the ping to get out of that rock bottom — the series of events that led her to getting out of the situation
Her anxious attachment to a guy in LA during this time, and the psychic premonitions about him
Until you know who you are entirely, don’t go see anyone about future premonitions
Everyone is meant to go through a conscious update, but it happens at different points in life for everyone
The struggle in work feeling like an entrepreneur in a corporate, structured setting
Jocelyn has first-hand experience with the work and the pathway
How someone she dated served as a mirror during Unblocked Reparent and shadow
Perfectionism, and how this influences how Jocelyn accepts love
Growing up, she always felt that something was missing in her friendships and relationships — the work has helped her form deeper connections with like-minded people
Finding a safe space to express our emotions and owning the way we express ourselves
What’s come up for her in her career/entrepreneurship while working through the Pathway
Reconciling her career mindset with the work history of her parents, specifically growing up without her mom working
The most valuable work upfront for her was shadow work - she experienced many things that were bigger than her
How the work she was doing shifted things within her family dynamic, especially the relationship with her dad
If something’s not moving or opening up, there’s still another layer of unblocking or expansion that you need to do
During Unblocked Money, she called forth a great opportunity for her career
Everything in life is energetic, even if we put it on a physical item; it’s an energetic of worthiness
Every time she would push this guy away, she would get magnetic in her career
When you consciously ask for expanders, the universe will put them in front of you
Her brother’s wedding served as a final expander for her romantic life — she has been dating more recently than she has before
Besides Elaine, her brother’s wedding, and her aunt, Lacy is a big expander for Jocelyn; she also has several micro-expanders
Three things in motion to manifest: 1. Finding expanders/being expanded in what you want 2. Being unblocked 3. Taking action
Jocelyn’s current career manifestations and how they are creating magnetism in other areas of her life
Expansion around identifying and pulling together someone she is physically attracted to and the chemistry is there, with someone who is emotionally available
Knowing what your capable of and fully stepping into your financial worth
Lacy answers some of Jocelyn’s manifestation questions around the next career steps and love
Don’t get addicted to using healers, but use them when you need them — follow your intuition
To be a new way in this world, the old way has to actually die
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