A Move To Colorado, A New Car, & Restarting My Brand
Trigger warning: This testimonial details one members manifestation journey as they process various types of trauma which include suicide.
Name: Kayla Fassio
Where do you reside?: Denver Colorado
What is your cultural upbringing and background?: Christian, Middle class, grew up in Oklahoma (Bible Belt)
Are you currently a Pathway Member?: Yes
What was on your manifestation list?: Where do I start!! I first had to heal a lot of trauma before I could even be serious about manifesting anything.
Since I've done the work through therapy and TBM, I've:
-Left a toxic, abusive relationship even though I had no money / no car - but I had my emotional stability.
-Restarted my brand/business that I put on the back burner for two years, and its growing and expanding (its fitness, but I was able to add mental and emotional tools after doing my own work on myself)
-Manifested moving to Colorado from Florida (although I LOVE the beach, I knew the mountains were calling)
-Manifested a brand new car
-Manifested a new apartment with everything on my list (these were a big deal to me after leaving my toxic relationship less than a year)
-Manifested signing with modeling agencies
I shared my story on a podcast, "It Doesn't End Here," and it is wildly successful in 41 countries.
I've been able to do all of this in less than a year after working through trauma, using inner child work, and manifestation with TBM.
What workshops did you use and what blocks did you discover during the DIs & workshops?: Every DRE, How To Manifest, Unblocked Inner Child, Unblocked Shadow, Unblocked Money
What expanders did you find?: Mostly women on social media, people that would randomly come into my life to uplevel me or give me an opportunity or show me something was possible!
What tests did you face? Which did you pass? Not pass?: A TON!! It is really important to me to be doing/living my passion for work.. making a paycheck from it.. I help women through nutrition and exercise. While it's hard being EVERY role in your business as I am now... it's hard financially. Many times I thought about taking jobs with low self-worth just for Money. I know I can bartend or serve, but that energy is so draining to me and takes me away from what I really want to do. Although I'm not rolling in the dough right now, I keep choosing to work on MY business and MY brand, and it's paying off.. I would rather put 100% into it than 50% and get there slower.
I left my toxic relationship even when it was the hardest thing to do to start over, but I've done it. I've set boundaries that I've needed to for a long time with people who I never thought I would have to, and it hasn't ended well. I've lost friends for staying in my worth. But I'm the happiest I've been because I can set boundaries, stay in my worth, pass tests, and manifest anything I want. This is all so new for me since; growing up until I was 29, I had no idea how to even be aware of my feelings and emotions.
Did you experience a magic dark period? If so, tell us about it.: Yes, my magic dark was from about October 2017 - August 2020. This was when I was lost and broken, emotionally unaware. I got trauma bonded in a narcissistic, toxic, abusive relationship for 2.5 years, and that was the hardest thing I've been through - the emotional pain I went through and being SO out of my worth. But, I needed to heal the past to see the present. My eyes were opened to that at my rock bottom in January 2020. Then for eight months, I worked on myself so hard. In August 2020, when I left the relationship, it was still hard, and I was grieving the past - even though it was extremely toxic, but I got through it, and now I share my story publicly.
How did your manifestation come through?: By becoming so self-aware, having the emotional tools, staying in my worth, making lists, meditating on those lists!
How long did it take for your manifestation to come through after crafting your initial list?: Less than a year for everything to come through
How frequently were you using the workshops and DI's when you noticed the biggest shift surrounding your manifestation?: Everyday
How do you incorporate this work into your life on a daily basis? Any tips, tricks or recommendations for getting the most out of it, or personalizing it?: Starting in the order you guys suggest helped a lot - How To Manifest, Unblocked Inner Child, Unblocked Shadow.. etc. A lot of people think their current issues stem from current things happening when that's not always the case. Any emotion or trigger you get now is from programming from the past - they don't realize they need to work on/heal the past before they can even deal with current problems. The way I do it is using headphones, sleeping masks, and doing the DI's, going in order through the work, and IF I NEED, I'll do a DI for a trigger I'm having currently. I always have those in my back pocket to use while still going through the workshops in order. I love having these! Before, I would have to wait to see my therapist once a week to unload everything on her. Now, I feel like I can work through it in a matter of minutes and move on with my day as opposed to letting it ruin my day or week like before..
If you'd like, please include your IG handle:: @kaylafassio
WORKSHOPS
How to Manifest / Shadow / Inner Child / Money / DREs
