Manifesting The Exact Salary I Wrote On My List
Name: Nathali de Lange
Where do you reside?: Cape Town, South Africa
What is your cultural upbringing and background?: White, Afrikaans, Single Mom
Are you currently a Pathway Member?: Yes
What was on your manifestation list?: I manifested the EXACT salary I need to live my DREAM life. I know it sounds odd. But since starting the work in November 2019, I have been chasing a NETT salary. This amount was what I was earning in 2017. So I served mostly as my own expander.
In November 2019, I found the work, and at that stage, I was chasing the Porshe Cayenne. 'Happily' settling in a relationship with a man I accidentally fell pregnant with, we were in a superficial, bland, civilized relationship. I was awfully unhappy, uninspired but had no real reason to leave. I've never left a man. I have always felt the need to be in a relationship.
I manifested my first bridge job in April 2020. I made a list of a job I wanted, along with the minimum salary. The next day my friend posted a job spec on Facebook. I applied and got the job two weeks later.
A few months later, my world was shattered when I found out that Baby Daddy was cheating on me. It took me six months to get the message, and I eventually relocated 2000kms away with my kid and moved in with my best friend and her husband. I had a job that allowed me to move to this City and a best friend who allowed me to move in with her and use her car while I was getting settled. All manifested.
The real work then started as I was trying to manifest a Salary that would allow me and my daughter to move out, have a car, and live comfortably and freely (Freedom and Security as part of my Authentic Code). I then applied for a 2nd job that would offer some leverage and help a bit – not as much, but it would still help. The 1st Interview went well, but afterward, I was notified that they had put the role on hold. At this time, I had met an incredible man with an extreme trauma bond. Six weeks in, and I knew I had to gracefully let him go. He just wasn't ready to commit. I did so, and I was shattered. I have never walked away – and I believe I did it with Grace and Confidence.
Another job then came, and I went very far in the Interview process, but unfortunately did not get the offer. I felt depleted but decided to put my head down and do the job. Also, I made the very important decision to delete all Dating Apps and focus only on my life and my future. It was hard, but I am so proud that I have been dealing with healing. About two weeks ago, I was called for the second interview with the first company – and they said they had changed the spec and doubled the salary. I then had my third Interview a few days later, and after passing two more self-worth tests, I was offered the opportunity.
I am now earning exactly what I have wanted since starting the job, and I have the opportunity to still earn a commission. I have found expanders in young ladies who are ambitious and strong, in myself, in finding surrender, in single moms working two or more jobs, and just listening to each and every single ping that I got.
What workshops did you use and what blocks did you discover during the DIs & workshops?: I have done all the workshops, and I do the daily DI. I am very fond of the TRUST DI in Inner Child, as well as Grace and Deservingness DIs. The trigger one is new to me, but I have found that it speeds up the process a lot.
How do you incorporate this work into your life on a daily basis? Any tips, tricks or recommendations for getting the most out of it, or personalizing it?: I do this work every single day. When I am triggered, I journal first and try to figure out what is going on - then I use the appropriate DI.
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