Getting Comfortable With Receiving
Name: Chelsea Jeheber
Are you currently a Pathway Member?: Yes
What was on your manifestation list?:
-Expanded business
-Consistent client bookings
-Overcome money blocks
-Confidence in self
-Perfect fitting pair of Levi's
-Dream car
What workshops did you use and what blocks did you discover during the DIs & workshops?: I focused primarily on Unblocked Money, The Rut workshop, and Unblocked Inner child. A major block I found was "I'm not good enough," which looked like feeling not special enough to make money because I wasn't born wealthy. This also showed up in client sessions where I doubted my gifts. Even when my dream car first came in, I felt it was too nice and luxurious for me, ultimately failing that test and not having the car come through.
I also have worked through a ton of money blocks. So much fear around receiving money and spending it. My dad held money over me as a kid that he was the breadwinner. While working through the DI's, I found that I would date broke guys. My current partner is very successful, and after we moved in together, I lost my job, and he started supporting us (happy to do so too), which threw me into a rock bottom of feeling undeserving and not good enough. I have had to really learn how to receive again. Which once I did, my own money started coming through again.
What expanders did you find?:
-Melissa Wood is my top expander as we have similar background stories, and I love how authentic she and shell abundantly share who she is without guilt to shame. I also admire how she presents herself while being wealthy.
-Lacy, of course, again, a similar childhood and how she overcame her money blocks.
-Victoria Beckham, which is funny to me. I love how luxurious and chic she is, same with Jenna Zoe. I'm learning how to come into those elements, which I hid away for years.
What tests did you face? Which did you pass? Not pass?: At the beginning of the year, I was still teaching yoga and pilates but wanted to leave the studio to focus on my business full time. I gave them notice I would leave in April, and at the end of March, they offered me free barre training if I would stay on for another six months. I said no and passed that test.
I've also had so many people ask for free sessions or personal advice, which I had to really learn how to set boundaries and politely say no without explaining myself. It was challenging at first, but now I keep copy for these types of messages in my notes that I can easily copy and paste..or not respond at all, lol.
I've been calling in my dream car, definitely not focusing on the how, as money is very tight for me personally. My partner sent me a link to a luxury car out of nowhere about a year ago, and I told him it was too nice and felt guilt for him wanting to get me a car and basically failed that test hard. Six months ago, he asked me again what car I would like, and I owned it telling him exactly what I wanted while still allowing my non-specific side to shine. He surprised me with my exact dream car a few days later.
I also have read so many financial books over the years but never implemented the information, so now every week when I get paid, I make sure to disperse that money into my savings etc. (I do 20% for now) even if it's only 50$ coming in I still do it. Which I think has made me even more magnetic in regards to money.
Did you experience a magic dark period? If so, tell us about it.: Yes! I had no clients for my new business for three months, and I was running out of money to pay my bills and apps to even run my business. I only had a few dollars left in my account, and my audible still needed to go through, which would cause me to overdraft. I could either ask my partner to put money in my account, which is not normal for us, and felt like a big no.
I could dog paddle and cancel audible, which also felt like a no. Funnily enough, what felt like hell yes was just allowing the overdraft to happen and surrender to the unfolding of the universe, which I did. A few days later, I checked my account and saw that Audible never charged me; I still received book credit, AND clients started booking at the end of that week and have consistently since then.!
How did your manifestation come through?: I'm an intuitive and decided I should make a list of my dream clients. This really helped create clarity around what type of channel I am and the kind of business I'm running. I felt after I had a clear picture of my perfect client, they started coming through. This was after passing all the tests and working through those blocks.
They just started booking week after week, and I get so excited after each session because I'm truly doing what lights me up. Now my business continues to expand and grow, with my own course coming next year. Also, My partner surprised me with my dream car, which I believe finalized my ability to receive fully from high self-worth once again. I'm still searching for the dang Levi's though lol.
If you'd like, please include your IG handle:: @chelseajeheber
What is your cultural upbringing and background?: I was born to young, broke parents, but we lived in a really nice area, which often felt confusing and conflicting. My parents had only known each other for a month when they became pregnant with me, so a lot of emotional turmoil there.
WORKSHOPS
Inner Child / Money / Uplevel
