Leaving A Toxic Job, A Large Light-Filled Apartment, & Unexpected Partnership!
Name: Rosie Garner
What is your cultural upbringing and background?: New Zealand European
Are you currently a Pathway Member?: Yes
What was on your manifestation list?:
Where to start!
- large, light-filled Art Deco apartment with fireplace, bath, sunroom
- Loving, committed, healthy relationship with a beautiful, emotionally available man who chooses me
- A creative, well-paying marketing manager role that allows me to have creative freedom, travel, professional development with an awesome culture, and the best people
- Freedom! Emotional, physical, financial freedom. After being so stuck in shitty relationships, jobs, family dynamics, I finally feel free to be who I am
So excited about the future and my life.
What workshops did you use and what blocks did you discover during the DIs & workshops?: I did Unblocked Shadow, Unblocked Boundaries, Unblocked Inner Child & Unblocked Love. I did different parts to each one at different times over the past 18 months.
What expanders did you find?: I found lots on Instagram.
Five years ago, I started my own private Instagram and left my own vlog diaries every week/month over the last five years, and that account only follows expanders. (No one follows me, it's completely private).
I've also found it really hard to find relationship expanders IRL and have had to craft up my own from DI's, and low and behold, I am now living and loving in the exact relationships I was looking up to.
What tests did you face? Which did you pass? Not pass?: Ah gosh, also where to start! Haha.
Every test imaginable:
Emotionally unavailable men (galore), people-pleasing, no boundaries, freelance work is drying up, running out of savings, having nowhere to live between leases. You name it. I failed it, lol.
Did you experience a magic dark period? If so, tell us about it.:
Every rock bottom/magic dark taught me so much. It taught me resilience, trust, surrender. And now, I truly feel I can overcome anything. I lean into challenges and go inward and know I'm going to be totally fine! Nothing scares me anymore because I've faced my biggest fear: abandonment, and now I know I will never abandon myself.
How did your manifestation come through?: As soon as I found my apartment, everything changed. Once I was able to create my own Home (literally & metaphorically), I had a strong foundation to build self-worth, self-trust, and an unshakable knowing that I was always going to be ok. From here, my (now) partner re-entered my life, and it's been so incredible ever since. I quit my toxic job and am now working for an amazing company, and I'm doing the best work I've ever done.
Everything has gained momentum and continues to, but I needed to first build an inner foundation within myself. That took so many tests, setbacks, weak boundaries in order for me to hit rock bottom and make some big changes.
How long did it take for your manifestation to come through after crafting your initial list?: Initially, years. I was never committed to the work and never felt worthy. Once I committed and felt unshakable worth, it happened right away. Maybe two weeks?
How frequently were you using the workshops and DI's when you noticed the biggest shift surrounding your manifestation?: Every day, sometimes twice a day. We were in lockdown, so it was perfect timing.
How do you incorporate this work into your life on a daily basis? Any tips, tricks or recommendations for getting the most out of it, or personalizing it?: My private Instagram vlogs! See my comment above. It's so amazing witnessing the growth and reflecting back on all the challenges and can truly see how far I've come and how much I've grown. It also helps cultivate compassion. I was so fucked up for such a long time and had so little self-worth and zero boundaries.
If you'd like, please include your IG handle:: @rosiegarnercom
Is there anything else you think we should know? If you made this process your own in any way, this is the perfect spot to share that.: Thank you guys so much for this space and work. It's truly changing the world.
WORKSHOPS
Shadow / Inner Child / Love / Boundaries
