The Perfect Career For Me
Name: Becky Tupa
Where do you reside?: Minden, Nevada
What is your cultural upbringing and background?: Born in Southern California and lived there until the age of 40. My parents divorced when I was three, and I lived with my mom until I was eleven. She was very unsettled with many marriages and moved us to a new location every year. It wasn't an easy childhood, but it allowed me to recognize a different path for myself. I've been married for 41 years (since I was 17) and have three children and four grandchildren.
Are you currently a Pathway Member?: Yes
What was on your manifestation list?: My micro list: *New refrigerator with double doors, pull out deli drawer and pull out freezer. *New dishwasher, quiet mode with garbage disposal and small third-row rack. *Travel for rest and relaxation and enjoyable experiences.
My macro list: A new job: *A position working out of the classroom, *Quiet, calm office with a window, *decorated beautifully,*Flexible schedule, *Travel when needed, *More pay and ability to make fluid income.
The micro manifestations came to fruition within the first year. One of my travel experiences was a trip by myself to Mendocino, Ca. I had never done this before, and it was magical.
The macro manifestation came through within 14 months.
New micro list: Like-minded friends / community (hence going public with my life for the first time ever) *Get back to my creative roots to create beauty, love, and fun
New macro list: Travel...Hawaii during whale migration and to spend time with sea turtles. Australia...to learn about the people, sites, and animals. Visit the Steve Irwin Wildlife Sanctuary.
**Trip for Hawaii is booked for February 2022
What workshops did you use and what blocks did you discover during the DIs & workshops?: The first four took me several months to get through. I was going over and over them while journaling, drawing, and doing the DI's. 1, How to manifest. 2. Unblocked Inner child. 3. Unblocked Shadow 4. Authentic Code
As I began to manifest and see the correlations to my inner self, I moved on to unblocked boundaries, unblocked full moon, and the biggie....Unblocked Money. I didn't realize many of the issues with my job had roots in unblocked money. I did this workshop when I took a weekend trip by myself. It was simply amazing. I was able to let go of many blocks and expectations.
What expanders did you find?: I found other women who had careers that were manageable, and they were happy. I found expanders in young women with podcasts that were full of spiritual wisdom and speaking their truth. In addition to the Expanded Podcast, I also found Sahara Rose and Jess Lively. They were my daughter's age, but their messages rang true for me too.
What tests did you face? Which did you pass? Not pass?: Many!!!!!! Patience and trying to hold on and force things energetically. I faced many tests with money as I tried to navigate the path of career freedom and victim mentality. I faced many tests with my physical health because of this. I needed to learn to take care of myself at others' expense. It was a lifelong trait that I had to unravel. Daily DI's helped with this. When I began to let go and say it will happen if it's meant to be... things began to shift.
Tests I passed: I was waiting for my new job to come through. Positions were posted that were a way out but did not meet my requirements. I held firm. I made a plan for the following year if nothing else came, though. I wasn't going to give in. I let it all go.... I will post my biggest test in the manifestation section. : )
Did you experience a magic dark period? If so, tell us about it.: I hid this very well from those around me. I won awards for my work as a teacher, and parents sought to have their child in my class each year. However, I was VERY unhappy with my job. I was teaching a room full of young children, exhausted, mentally and physically coming undone. I would sit in my car a few minutes before I had to go into the building, watching and listening to the birds. I had my journal with me and would send out my intentions daily. I was a magic dark that lasted longer than I had anticipated. I had constant tests during this time. I knew I had to be getting close.
How did your manifestation come through?: This is from my post in Pathway. I am normally a very private person, but I wanted other women (people) my age to know it's not too late to find your happiness and change the direction of your life.
I am a public school teacher that has been very unhappy in my job for years. In fact, it is what drew me to this work. In my 50's, 18 years of teaching, pension, and insurance needs, I felt trapped and didn't know how to escape. I was beyond miserable. I started doing this work and began manifesting things on my list, but no job. After a year, I could feel something shifting…the tests and magic dark came, and I held strong for the job that met every point on my list.
When I asked my inner voice, it simply said 'soon.' Little did I know that a new position was being created behind the scenes that were a perfect fit for me. When the position opened, I was ready…I deserved this. It was a one year position that later turned into two. More money, flexible schedule, helping fellow teachers. I am so happy. The debilitating anxiety is gone. I am now manifesting my healthy body. Those years took a toll on my body, but I'm now ready to take back health.
How long did it take for your manifestation to come through after crafting your initial list?: 14 months
How frequently were you using the workshops and DI's when you noticed the biggest shift surrounding your manifestation?: Daily to three times per week.
How do you incorporate this work into your life on a daily basis? Any tips, tricks or recommendations for getting the most out of it, or personalizing it?: I began journaling. I bought Blue Blox eye mask and used it when I was doing my DI's. It is not only helpful to me but when I have them on, it's a signal to my family that I'm not to be disturbed. I find the pathway courses resonated more with me when I sat outside or listened to nature as I journaled the work. If I had to sit inside, I lit my favorite candle and got warm and cozy with a blanket. I always listen to the DI's with my headphones. The Podcast is also a very big part of my journey. I listen to it every week while I'm driving.
If you'd like, please include your IG handle: @beckytupa
Is there anything else you think we should know? If you made this process your own in any way, this is the perfect spot to share that.: For me, spending time alone to process everything I was learning was very important.
