Dialing Down My List Led to Meeting My Partner
Name: Jennifer Martelle
Where do you reside?: Vermont, USA
What is your cultural upbringing and background?: My dad is Italian, my mother is Japanese and Cherokee.
Are you currently a Pathway Member?: Yes
What was on your manifestation list?: Back in 2019, I was calling in my life partner.
What workshops did you use and what blocks did you discover during the DIs & workshops?: I did most of them! Unblocked Love and How to Manifest on repeat to get into my worth I believe helped me the most.
What expanders did you find?: I found expanders of couples that portrayed and seemed to genuinely have the kind of relationship I was seeking on Instagram.
What tests did you face? Which did you pass? Not pass?: I passed a lot of tests coming from all directions. Toxic ex reaching back out to me (repeatedly), going on dates with people who did not value my worth, and people who met almost all the qualities on my list but not all of them. I held strong, and I did not give in to the tests -- I knew that it was possible to have everything I wanted in a partner who would be as devoted as me. Whenever I had a date, I would re-write my list and get even clearer on what was hard NO's for me and what I wanted to call in.
Did you experience a magic dark period? If so, tell us about it.: Hell yes. My 5-year relationship/engagement with my toxic ex, leaving him, having him reach back out, and the abuse I endured from the relationship and totally restarting my life after him was my magic dark. It was also a beautiful new start.
How did your manifestation come through?: My now-husband came through eventually, and when he did - I was so grateful I did the work and did not settle. After about two months together, we eloped! In the woods under a waterfall with our best friend marrying us, just the two of us. We've now been married three years and have an amazing son, a beautiful, incredibly expansive, and abundant life.
How long did it take for your manifestation to come through after crafting your initial list?: about a year
How frequently were you using the workshops and DI's when you noticed the biggest shift surrounding your manifestation?: multiple times a week, I would say about 4
How do you incorporate this work into your life on a daily basis? Any tips, tricks or recommendations for getting the most out of it, or personalizing it?: MAKE TIME FOR IT! if you're driving, listen to the podcast. Constantly recommit to yourself. Make lists, tape them up, do not ignore them, and know it is attainable!! Find what works for you, and do not stop going after it!
If you'd like, please include your IG handle: @jenstella_
Is there anything else you think we should know? If you made this process your own in any way, this is the perfect spot to share that.: I have been doing this work for many years since this was Free and Native. It has brought more abundance into my life than I can even recall. This works. Be committed. From my relationship, my son, my career, my homeownership, my car..... everything I had a few years ago before this work I did not think would be attainable. It works, and I am a true testament to this!!!
