Autonomy

Q: How do you deal with a father who adores you, but was very over protective and due to his cultural background, didn’t really take you for an individual, an adult, and so a lot of lying was involved in growing up?

A: The most important thing for you is going to be spending time with other women who were raised very similar to you culturally, but have gone on to liberate themselves. Another key component is going to be going through Inner Child and using a whole alternative magnetic family to reprogram every one of those experiences, especially in ratio to what you’re calling in. So, again, let’s say it’s a partner and sexually you feel super repressed, because it was considered bad or taboo within your culture. You’re going to have to go back and maybe the parents that will come to you are hippy and sensual and and they teach you how beautiful sexuality is and that it’s an expression between people. You have to show when you’re in that sub-conscious state this alternative modeling so it can create new neural pathways for you. Then you want to reinforce them by surrounding yourself around these expanders, who have liberated themselves and are living in their true authentic-ness. That would be the best plan of action that you can spend time on. Go through and re-parent in multiple days from pre-utero until 25. There are days that you will developmentally need a lot more expansion and freedom and seeing you in your authenticity and breaking up shame. You’ll spend a little bit more time on those days. Doing them a few times in a row or three times that week, or reinforcing this magnetic alternative experience. When you are reprogramming this more magnetic experience, you’re going to make sure that it’s 100% in alignment with your soul. What your soul needs in order to feel expansive, authentic and free.